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However, I do ask that you keep the resource box at the end of the articlesAt the age of 64, I’ve decided that it’s high time I did something new and exciting. The only trouble is, I’m not sure what it should be. What I’d really like to do is to learn to dance properly. Not that modern “jigging” about, but something with style and poise, ballroom dancing really fits the bill for me. Although of course, the thought of Salsa also draws me, with its passion and romance. The only problem is, not only do I live in a very small village, with no public transport, and very limited funds, but my partner of 20 years, has no desire to do anything new, let alone learn to dance. He still thinks he’s a teenager, so that when he steps on to the dance floor, which he fortunately does only very rarely, I’m convinced he thinks he’s John Travolta. I’m certain that if I started dressing up and going out alone, in the car, he’d be convinced I was having an affair. This is hardly likely at my age, but a very flattering compliment, if he only realized it. The thought of having to keep reassuring him that I was not seeing another man, would be such an effort, that I would probably agree that, yes there was someone else, just to make him happy. So learning to dance is definitely out. What other pastime could I then pursue? It would have to be something I could do at home, without upsetting the daily routine too much, and at little or no expense.

I’m already in my second year of study with the Open University, for my degree in Geosciences. Having tried to do this over 20 years ago, I was forced to abandon my studies through work and personal circumstances, so this is my last attempt. I cannot give up this time, or fail, especially as my partner can see absolutely no reason why I’m doing it. This is something I’m doing “just for me”. So you see my dilemma, whatever I choose, mustn’t “rock the boat” and must be something I can pick up or put down at a moments notice.

After a bit of research on the internet: that’s something else he can’t be bothered with and sees no point in, computers and the internet, I’ve decided to begin playing World of Warcraft. Now that’s certainly different I thought to myself, I can move into a whole new world of my own, and be who I choose, go where I want and do whatever pleases me when the fancy takes me. But of course, it’s not as simple as that is it? Just like the real world, the fantasy world of WoW as we players call it, has rules and regulations. Unlike the real world, these rules must be learnt before one begins the game in earnest. One cannot just muddle along, learning from one’s parents, siblings and peers, as we all normally do. Not only did I have to create a character but, I had to decide which faction I wanted to belong to. This apparently is vital, as my choice has an impact not only on who I can associate with, but also on what I’m allowed to accomplish in this fantasy world. As one who was brought up with the belief that I could do anything I put my mind to, this seems a very strange and alien concept. Why if I pay to play this online game, should I not have freedom of choice in who I am and what I do?

Why are there millions of people around the world willingly, giving up all that most of us hold dear, freedom of choice and will, in the name of entertainment? It seems very strange to me and I’m sure to others who have tried the game, that to reach the various levels in the game, and earn the gold to buy what is known as your epic mount, you must give up the very freedom, which the game is based upon. Namely performing quests to reach the highest level, by adventure and daring, and defeating your enemies.

Author: Jane Holloway

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